{"id":163,"date":"2006-07-19T20:38:30","date_gmt":"2006-07-19T18:38:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/iskwew.com\/blogg\/2006\/07\/19\/different-drummers-david-keirsey-1998\/"},"modified":"2008-02-27T16:22:19","modified_gmt":"2008-02-27T15:22:19","slug":"different-drummers-david-keirsey-1998","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/iskwew.com\/blogg\/2006\/07\/19\/different-drummers-david-keirsey-1998\/","title":{"rendered":"Different drummers (David Keirsey, 1998)"},"content":{"rendered":"

If I do not want what you want, please try not to tell me that my want is wrong.<\/em>Or if I believe other than you, at least pause before you correct my view.<\/em><\/p>\n

Or if my emotion is less than yours, or more, given the same circumstances, try not to ask me to feel more strongly or weakly.<\/em><\/p>\n

Or yet if I act, or fail to act, in the manner of your design for action, let me be.<\/em><\/p>\n

I do not, for the moment at least, ask you to understand me. That will come only when you are willing to give up changing me into a copy of you. <\/em><\/p>\n

I may be your spouse, your parent, your offsping, your friend, or your colleague. If you will allow me any of my own wants, or emotions, or beliefs, or actions, then you open yourself, so that some day these ways of mine might not seem so wrong, and might finally appear to you as right — for me. To put up with me is the first step to understanding me. Not that you embrace my ways as right for you, but that you are no longer irritated or disappointed with me for my seeming waywardness. And in understanding me you might come to prize my differences from you, and, far from seeking to change me, preserve and even nurture those differences. <\/em><\/p>\n

Oversatt til norsk<\/strong> av yours truly:<\/p>\n

Om jeg ikke \u00f8nsker det du \u00f8nsker, v\u00e6r s\u00e5 snill \u00e5 ikke fortell meg at det jeg \u00f8nsker er feil.<\/em><\/p>\n

Eller om jeg tror forskjellig fra deg, ta i det minste en pause for du korrigerer mitt syn.<\/em><\/p>\n

Eller om mine f\u00f8lelser er mindre enn dine, eller st\u00f8rre, gitt de samme omstendigheter, fors\u00f8k \u00e5 ikke be meg om \u00e5 f\u00f8le mer eller mindre.<\/em><\/p>\n

Eller om jeg handler, eller ikke handler, p\u00e5 den m\u00e5ten du synes jeg skal, la meg v\u00e6re.<\/em><\/p>\n

For \u00f8yeblikket, i hvert fall, ber jeg deg ikke om \u00e5 forst\u00e5 meg. Det vil bare skje dersom du oppgir \u00e5 fors\u00f8ke \u00e5 forandre meg til en kopi av deg selv.<\/em><\/p>\n

Jeg kan v\u00e6re din ektefelle, din forelder, ditt barn, din venn eller din kollega. Om du vil la meg f\u00e5 noen av mine \u00f8nsker, eller f\u00f8lelser, eller det jeg tror p\u00e5, eller mine handlinger; \u00e5pne deg selv opp, slik at noen dager virker ikke min v\u00e6rem\u00e5te s\u00e5 feil, og kanskje til og med riktige – for meg. Ikke at du omfavner min v\u00e6re m\u00e5te som den rett for deg, men du er ikke lenger irritert eller skuffet over meg p\u00e5 grunn av min egensindighet. Og ved \u00e5 forst\u00e5 meg kan du komme til \u00e5 verdsette at jeg er ulik deg, og i stedet for \u00e5 fors\u00f8ke \u00e5 forandre meg, vil du bevare og til og med dyrke de forskjellene.<\/em><\/p>\n

Da jeg lette etter noe annet blant gamle filer, fant jeg igjen denne. Og den synes jeg sier uendelig mye om respekt og forst\u00e5else for andre mennesker. Jeg tror mannen er psykolog, og utdraget er fra en bok som heter Please Understand Me.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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